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Ready to navigate parenthood with less conflict and more cooperation?


A 6-week program to create more connection, foster personal growth, and build a stronger bond with your child through personality awareness!

Parenting can be the most challenging role of your life.

Building a strong foundation for your child to become a responsible and happy adult while remaining one yourself is no small feat!

81% of people in a 2023 news poll believe they have a  dysfunctional family vs a tight-knit family.

Nearly 40% of US children lack strong emotional bonds with their parents.

If you are you a parent facing the dynamic challenges that come with raising a child over the age of 5, are you ready to up your parenting game to stay above the statistics?

If so...



Your Parenting Mission

Should You Choose to Accept It...

Is to navigate and nurture the differences between you and your child by understanding each others' personality type so there is less conflict and more cooperation through speaking your child’s language as you create more genuine connection in just 6 weeks.

The Parenting Game-Changer

that could have saved me years of conflict and confusion

I know the struggles of parenthood - having been a parent for 27 years now. After leaving a tumultuous 12-year relationship back in 1998, I became the sole parent and provider of my son Eric when he was only 2-years old. The following years were some of the toughest years of my life. 

As I was figuring out the whole parenting thing while financially making ends meet, I struggled with insecurities, stress, and anger that led to impatience with my son that led to guilt for being impatient. Oh yeah, and I was always in a hurry! I was stuck in a cycle and felt like I was never going to be able to break through my emotional and financial barriers to achieve a better life for me and my son.

That’s when I knew I had to do something, so I found a new path and immersed myself in a process of profound transformation. Even though I had a degree in Psychology, I attended over 80 seminars and retreats studying a multitude of subjects including emotional healing, relationship dynamics, inner child work, and behavioral psychology. 

As a result of my healing and transformation, I became a healthier parent because I became a healthier woman. I became more confident and released my anger and guilt. Patience became one of the greatest gifts of my healing and it completely transformed my way of parenting. 

In Comes The Color Code!

It wasn't until years later that I discovered the Color Code through some dear friends of mine who are also life coaches. Even though I had taken many personality assessments over the years, this one surpassed all the others due to its  simplicity, its easy-to-understand yet powerful insights into myself and my son, and parenting strategies that could be implemented immediately.

The one thought that came to me again and again was, "This would have been a game-changer for me back when Eric was younger and I was struggling as a parent."

Even though I didn't have it back then, I have it now. The relationship with my son has deepened so much more by understanding each other's personality types. We've both laughed and loved more with the information we each discovered through the Color Code as it continues to strengthen our bond.

That's why I am excited to share this with you, so you can have the parenting game-changer that could have saved me years of conflict and confusion. It is an invaluable tool that can forever change your relationship for the better with your child, and quite honestly, everyone in your life!

How this program can uplevel your parenting game!


    Discover how to be more calm and centered when the temperatures are rising so you can prevent the breakdown of your parent-child relationship.


    Know how to best communicate and engage with your child by speaking their language.


    End the cycle of unsuccessfully trying to correct your children's behavior by knowing the reason for the behavior and why they do what they do.


    Build your child's confidence through self-acceptance and embracing their strengths while acknowledging and working on areas for growth.

    Equip your child with the life skills needed to navigate challenges and make informed choices as they grow into adulthood.


The Pariser Family

"Color-coding our family has made an incredible difference in understanding each other.

Being a YELLOW personality type, nothing embarrasses me. When I learned that my husband and my oldest daughter are each RED personality types, I learned it can cause them pain if I tease or say something that embarrasses them, especially in public. I now have a new sensitivity for them that I never really considered before.

It has helped me in understanding myself, enriching my marriage and enhancing my ability to parent with more empathy & clarity."

~ Sondra Pariser

Parenting by Personality - Nurturing Connection & Growth through Personality Awareness

Join us in Parenting by Personality with Lisa Ulshafer, Mom, Empowerment Life Coach & Certified Color Code Trainer, along with a group of like-minded parents just like you. Lisa has been coaching parents and families for over 17 years and looks forward to sharing this enlightening personality intelligence with you.


Take the Personality Assessments

As soon as you join the program, you will be given access to take the online adult personality assessment and will be mailed the child personality assessments for the number of children you have between the ages of 5-18 years. You will also receive instructions on how to guide your child through the answers depending on their age. 

You will also have access to the membership area where you will find a fun and engaging way to experience the program through collecting points each week to earn rewards and other surprises throughout the program!



Explore the Motivational Fuel for Each Personality

Gain profound insights into your own and your child's unique personality, fostering a deeper understanding of each other's driving core motives, wants, needs, and communication styles.


Discover the Power and Pitfalls of Each Personality

Empower yourself as a parent by recognizing and celebrating the strengths of you and your child, while acquiring strategies for dealing with limiting traits, turning potential challenges into opportunities for growth, cooperation, and a better understanding of one another.



Raise Your EQs

Nurture emotional intelligence in both yourself and your child by instilling skills needed to address uncomfortable emotions while fostering effective communication for a healthier parent-child relationship.


Embrace Your Family's True Colors

Create a more cohesive family unit by appreciating and embracing the diversity of personalities within the family, creating a positive and enjoyable family environment that nurtures happiness and connection.


Calibrate Your Parenting Style

Experience a more engaged and connected parent-child relationship by developing personalized parenting strategies based on your and your child's personality traits, creating a harmonious and supportive environment for growth.


Prepare for the Journey Ahead

Achieving a healthy parent-child relationship is not a sprint; it's a marathon with a long and winding road filled with diverse terrains and challenges. The key to maintaining an engaged and connected bond with your child over a lifetime lies in setting realistic expectations and making adjustments along the way as you adapt to the many phases of your child's ever-changing life.


Bring the whole family together!


By the end of this 6-week program, in under an hour a week, you can be experiencing more engagement and connection with your children that positively impacts the entire family because everyone feels understood and accepted for the unique individuals they are.

Imagine feeling a sense of gratitude for knowing that you and your children are simultaneously building confidence and self-acceptance, learning emotional intelligence, effective communication skills, and a deeper sense of empathy that brings the whole family together unlike ever before.



We know diving into a new parenting program is a big step, and you're probably wondering if this is going to be right for you and your family. That's why we've got your back with our Family Fit Guarantee 

This means you’ll get to attend the first 2 weeks with all the support and coaching, and if you’re not thrilled with the value we provide, just shoot Lisa an email to by January 30, 2024, tell us it's not for you, and you'll get 100% of your money back. 

All you are required to do to qualify is attend the first 2 live group coaching sessions and complete the exercises from those 2 weeks. It’s as easy as that because we want this to feel like a slam dunk for your family.