Unlock the Secrets to Raising Kids Who Listen, Respect, and Thrive!

Start by watching the video below, then take the free parent personality assessment!

Join Parenting by Personality and discover how to parent each child according to their unique personality so you can stop the yelling, end the power struggles, and finally enjoy more peace and connection at home.

With a Family Fit Guarantee

Let’s Be Real — Parenting is No Small Feat!

If you’ve ever wished parenting came with a user manual, you’re in the right place!

The Color Code has been transforming relationships for decades, and now it’s tailored just for parents.

If you’re repeating yourself, dealing with meltdowns, or constantly feeling like “nothing works,” the issue isn’t you. It’s that your child needs a different approach.

You’re doing your best to raise a kind, confident, emotionally healthy human… while remaining one yourself. And here’s the thing: you’re definitely not alone.

In a 2023 news poll, 81% of people said they came from a dysfunctional family.

The Sutton Trust study found that nearly 40% of U.S. kids are missing strong emotional bonds with their parents.

Those numbers? Yikes. But the good news is—you have the power to write a different story.

Let's Be Real — Parenting is No Small Feat!

If you’ve ever wished parenting came with a user manual, you’re in the right place!

The Color Code has been transforming relationships for decades, and now it’s tailored just for parents.

If you’re repeating yourself, dealing with meltdowns, or constantly feeling like “nothing works,” the issue isn’t you. It’s that your child needs a different approach.

You’re doing your best to raise a kind, confident, emotionally healthy human… while remaining one yourself. And here’s the thing: you’re definitely not alone.

In a 2023 news poll, 81% of people said they came from a dysfunctional family.

The Sutton Trust study found that nearly 40% of U.S. kids are missing strong emotional bonds with their parents.

Those numbers? Yikes. But the good news is—you have the power to write a different story.

Your Parenting Mission

Should You Choose to Accept It...

Is to uncover what makes your child tick, embrace your differences, and create more connection with less chaos. In just 6 weeks, you’ll learn how to speak their personality language so things run smoother at home (and yes, that includes fewer battles over bedtime). It’s parenting—but with a personalized twist. Mission POSSIBLE? Absolutely!

Your Parenting Mission

Should You Choose to Accept It...

Is to uncover what makes your child tick, embrace your differences, and create more connection with less chaos. In just 6 weeks, you’ll learn how to speak their personality language so things run smoother at home (and yes, that includes fewer battles over bedtime). It’s parenting—but with a personalized twist. Mission possible? Absolutely!

Your Parenting Captain

This mission is led by Lisa Ulshafer—Mom, Empowerment Life Coach, Author, and Certified Color Code Trainer.

With over 18 years of experience coaching parents and families, Lisa knows the highs, the lows, and the "get-off-the-computer-before-I-pull-the-WiFi" moments of raising kids. She's walked the parenting path herself—solo, messy, and determined—and transformed it into a journey of deep connection, emotional growth, and powerful breakthroughs.

Now, she's here to hand you the tools, insights, and lightbulb moments she wished she had earlier.

Ready to laugh, learn, and level up your parenting game? Lisa’s got you.

(Curious about her story? Scroll down to read her real-life parenting adventure).

Your Parenting Captain

This mission is led by Lisa Ulshafer—Mom, Empowerment Life Coach, Author, and Certified Color Code Trainer.

With over 18 years of experience coaching parents and families, Lisa knows the highs, the lows, and the "get-off-the-computer-before-I-pull-the-WiFi" moments of raising kids. She's walked the parenting path herself—solo, messy, and determined—and transformed it into a journey of deep connection, emotional growth, and powerful breakthroughs.

Now, she's here to hand you the tools, insights, and lightbulb moments she wished she had earlier.

Ready to laugh, learn, and level up your parenting game? Lisa’s got you.

(Curious about her story? Scroll down to read her real-life parenting adventure).

What’s In It for You—and Your Kids!

Less Drama, More Zen

Learn how to keep your cool when things get heated—and stop those meltdowns before they begin.

Finally Speak Their Language

Connect in ways that actually land so your kid hears you (and maybe even listens 😲).

Bye-Bye Behavior Battles

Understand what’s really going on underneath the acting out—and respond in ways that work.

Build Confidence from the Inside Out

Help your child feel accepted, valued, and proud of who they are—quirks and all.

Raise Capable, Confident Humans

Teach responsibility without lectures—just real-life tools for wise choices and growing up strong.

What's In It for You — and Your Kids!

Less Drama, More Zen

Learn how to keep your cool when things get heated—and stop those meltdowns before they begin.

Finally Speak Their Language

Connect in ways that actually land so your kid hears you (and maybe even listens 😲).

Bye-Bye Behavior Battles

Understand what’s really going on underneath the acting out—and respond in ways that work.

Build Confidence from the Inside Out

Help your child feel accepted, valued, and proud of who they are—quirks and all.

Raise Capable, Confident Humans

Teach responsibility without lectures—just real-life tools for wise choices and growing up strong.

What's Inside this Powerful Program!

PREPARING FOR THE PROGRAM

Begin by taking the Personality Assessments

You’ll receive access to the Color Code assessment for parents and kid-friendly versions for children between the ages of 5 and 18.

2 Parent Online Assessments: Once you complete the assessments, you'll receive 2 completely customized reports that are designed to fully analyze each of your personalities. ($80 value)

K-3 "SuperPower" Printable PDF Assessment: Designed to help your 5-8 year old discover their "SuperPower" in this easy-to-take assessment! ($10 value)

4TH-7TH "Emoji" Printable PDF Assessment: Designed for children ages 9-12 with the intention to validate their uniqueness as well as the uniqueness of others. ($10 value)

8TH-12TH "Getting It!" Online Assessment: Designed specifically for secondary students, it not only helps them develop self-awareness but also provides suggestions for study habits, career considerations, and building healthy relationships based on their answers. ($20 value)

WEEK 1

Explore the Motivational Fuel for Each Personality

Uncover the motives and needs at the heart of both your and your child’s personalities—what drives you, what shuts you down, and what helps you thrive. With this insight, communication becomes clearer and conflict starts to fade. It’s like having a parenting GPS that finally speaks your language!

"As I go through the color code and learn more about each personality, I am more and more aware of how much it matters where I’m coming from when I interact with someone. As a grandparent, this is helping me with my grown children, as well as my grandchildren. Thank you, Lisa!" ~ Kristy J.

What's included in Week 1:

Introduction to the Color Code Personality Science.

An overview of the emotional needs and wants that shape how we connect with others.

The needs and wants found in the RED personality.

The needs and wants found in the BLUE personality.

The needs and wants found in the WHITE personality.

The needs and wants found in the YELLOW personality.

EXERCISE: Getting CLEAR on Your Mission!
Discover each family member’s personality and motivation, identify your top parenting challenges, and cast a vision for what success looks like when those challenges are resolved.

WEEK 2

Discover the Powers and Pitfalls of Each Personality

Every personality has its superpowers, and its challenges, and you’ll uncover them all! You’ll learn how to celebrate the strengths that make you and your child shine, while also tackling the tricky traits without losing your cool. Instead of butting heads, you’ll discover how to work together with more ease and empathy. Get ready to turn everyday challenges into connection-building wins!

"My a-ha moment was learning that White personalities are deep, internal processors, which changed everything. It reframed years of self-doubt and allowed me to see that what I thought made me “less than” was my quiet superpower. It gave me permission to honor how I’m wired, to speak up, to process in my own time, and to lead with quiet strength. It’s transformed how I see myself and how I parent, partner, and lead. And most importantly, it’s allowed me to show up more authentically, for myself and for those I love." ~ Lisa F.

What's included in Week 2:

Introduction to the strengths and limitations of each personality.

The strengths and limitations typically found in the RED personality.

The strengths and limitations typically found in the BLUE personality.

The strengths and limitations typically found in the WHITE personality.

The strengths and limitations typically found in the YELLOW personality.

EXERCISE: PITFALLS No More!
Turn self-awareness into real, lasting change in your parenting journey.

WEEK 3

Calibrate Your Parenting Style

Dial in your parenting style to match your child’s unique personality—because one-size-fits-all just doesn’t cut it. You’ll learn how to respond in ways that truly resonate, so your child feels seen, heard, and understood. The result? Less frustration, more cooperation, and a whole lot more harmony at home.

"As a yellow parent, I can bring more fun to my blue daughter when she is having a hard moment. I can give her space and meet her with a lighter tone of voice when we need to have a more serious conversation. As a yellow parent with a yellow son, I know having fun together truly lights his soul on fire in the best ways. I also know that we can make the mundane tasks more gamified to keep him interested in the task at hand." ~ Karen F.

What's included in Week 3:

Introduction to parenting strategies based on you and your child’s color.

How to calibrate your parenting style for a RED personality child.

How to calibrate your parenting style for a BLUE personality child.

How to calibrate your parenting style for a WHITE personality child.

How to calibrate your parenting style for a YELLOW personality child.

Discover how to contribute to your children's positive development, reinforce good behavior, and promote a healthy sense of self-worth.

EXERCISE: CALIBRATION Initiated!
Parent with more precision and intention by aligning your parenting strategies to both your color and your child's color.

WEEK 4

Embrace Your Family's True Colors

Get ready to celebrate the colorful cast of characters in your household! You’ll learn how to embrace the unique personalities that make your family one-of-a-kind. When everyone feels accepted for who they are, connection deepens and conflicts shrink. It’s the secret to turning daily chaos into a more joyful, united home.

"Being a YELLOW personality, nothing embarrasses me. When I learned that my husband and my oldest daughter are each RED personalities, I learned it can cause them pain if I tease or say something that embarrasses them, especially in public. I now have a new sensitivity for them that I never really considered before." ~ Sondra P.

What's included in Week 4:

Discover how each personality interacts with each other.

Discover what to do and what not to do when relating to each personality.

EXERCISE: To DO or NOT TO DO!
Tune in more deeply to your child's personality through the lens of the Color Code.

WEEK 5

Raise Your EQs

Discover how to turn big feelings into big breakthroughs! You’ll learn how to help your child (and yourself) handle tough emotions with confidence and care. With simple tools to boost emotional intelligence, communication gets easier and connection grows stronger. Because when everyone learns how to feel it, name it, and talk through it—magic happens.

"I set the tone in my home which is why this work is so important. When I’m regulated and model how to hold and navigate difficult emotions as they arise and fall, I create a learning opportunity for my son and foster an environment of safety and security that ultimately creates a strong foundation for the fun and play he loves as a yellow personality!" ~ Lisa A.

What's included in Week 5:

Dive into one of the most powerful parenting tools you’ll ever use—emotional intelligence, or as we like to call it… raising your EQs!

Become charactered by developing strengths outside of your core color.

EQ Development for PARENTS

Calming YOU: Discover a powerful process to nurture emotional intelligence through emotional regulation for parents.

Calming Your LITTLE ONES: Discover simple ways to nurture emotional intelligence through emotional regulation for toddlers and children.

Calming Your TEENS: Discover strategies to nurture emotional intelligence through emotional regulation for teens.

EXERCISE: The TRIGGER Tracker!
Identify your and your child's triggers and determine strategies to de-escalate and regulate emotions.

WEEK 6

Prepare for the Journey Ahead

Parenting isn’t a sprint—it’s a lifelong adventure with twists, turns, and the occasional snack break. You’ll learn how to stay connected through every stage of your child’s growth by adjusting your expectations and approach along the way. You’ll also discover how to guide your child from “me” to “we,” helping them share their unique gifts with purpose. Because the ultimate goal isn’t just raising a great kid—it’s building a relationship that lasts a lifetime.

"Oh my gosh, in these six weeks I feel like everything has changed. I have gotten so much clarity on the needs of my husband and 2 daughters while increasing my ability to be present in their lives." ~ Staci M.

What's included in Week 6:

Celebrate your growth so far, as you understand that personality is a foundation, but growth is ongoing.

Discover how to maintain emotional closeness by adjusting your parenting communication as your children mature.

Help your children discover and contribute their gifts to the world by moving from self-focused growth to contribution and impact.

Final thoughts and acknowledgment for your commitment to your lifelong self-awareness, emotional intelligence, and all that you do for your family.

What's Inside this Powerful Program!

PREPARING FOR THE PROGRAM

Begin by taking the Personality Assessments

You’ll receive access to the adult Color Code assessment and kid-friendly versions for children between the ages of 5 and 18.

2 Parent Online Assessments: Once you complete the assessments, you'll receive 2 completely customized reports that are designed to fully analyze each of your personalities. ($80 value)

K-3 "SuperPower" Printable PDF Assessment: Designed to help your 5-8 year old discover their "SuperPower" in this easy-to-take assessment! ($10 value)

4TH-7TH "Emoji" Printable PDF Assessment: Designed for children ages 9-12 with the intention to validate their uniqueness as well as the uniqueness of others. ($10 value)

8TH-12TH "Getting It!" Online Assessment: Designed specifically for secondary students, it not only helps them develop self-awareness but also provides suggestions for study habits, career considerations, and building healthy relationships based on their answers. ($20 value)

WEEK 1

Explore the Motivational Fuel for Each Personality

Uncover the motives and needs at the heart of both your and your child’s personalities—what drives you, what shuts you down, and what helps you thrive. With this insight, communication becomes clearer and conflict starts to fade. It’s like having a parenting GPS that finally speaks your language!

"As I go through the color code and learn more about each personality, I am more and more aware of how much it matters where I’m coming from when I interact with someone. As a grandparent, this is helping me with my grown children, as well as my grandchildren. Thank you, Lisa!" ~ Kristy J.

What's included in Week 1:

Introduction to the Color Code Personality Science.

An overview of the emotional needs and wants that shape how we connect with others.

The needs and wants found in the RED personality.

The needs and wants found in the BLUE personality.

The needs and wants found in the WHITE personality.

The needs and wants found in the YELLOW personality.

EXERCISE: Getting CLEAR on Your Mission!
Discover each family member’s personality and motivation, identify your top parenting challenges, and cast a vision for what success looks like when those challenges are resolved.

WEEK 2

Discover the Powers and Pitfalls of Each Personality

Every personality has its superpowers, and its challenges, and you’ll uncover them all! You’ll learn how to celebrate the strengths that make you and your child shine, while also tackling the tricky traits without losing your cool. Instead of butting heads, you’ll discover how to work together with more ease and empathy. Get ready to turn everyday challenges into connection-building wins!

"My a-ha moment was learning that White personalities are deep, internal processors, which changed everything. It reframed years of self-doubt and allowed me to see that what I thought made me “less than” was my quiet superpower. It gave me permission to honor how I’m wired, to speak up, to process in my own time, and to lead with quiet strength. It’s transformed how I see myself and how I parent, partner, and lead. And most importantly, it’s allowed me to show up more authentically, for myself and for those I love." ~ Lisa F.

What's included in Week 2:

Introduction to the strengths and limitations of each personality.

The strengths and limitations typically found in the RED personality.

The strengths and limitations typically found in the BLUE personality.

The strengths and limitations typically found in the WHITE personality.

The strengths and limitations typically found in the YELLOW personality.

EXERCISE: PITFALLS No More!
Turn self-awareness into real, lasting change in your parenting journey.

WEEK 3

Calibrate Your Parenting Style

Dial in your parenting style to match your child’s unique personality—because one-size-fits-all just doesn’t cut it. You’ll learn how to respond in ways that truly resonate, so your child feels seen, heard, and understood. The result? Less frustration, more cooperation, and a whole lot more harmony at home.

"As a yellow parent, I can bring more fun to my blue daughter when she is having a hard moment. I can give her space and meet her with a lighter tone of voice when we need to have a more serious conversation. As a yellow parent with a yellow son, I know having fun together truly lights his soul on fire in the best ways. I also know that we can make the mundane tasks more gamified to keep him interested in the task at hand." ~ Karen F.

What's included in Week 3:

introduction to parenting strategies based on you and your child’s color.

How to calibrate your parenting style for a RED personality child.

How to calibrate your parenting style for a BLUE personality child.

How to calibrate your parenting style for a WHITE personality child.

How to calibrate your parenting style for a YELLOW personality child.

Discover how to contribute to your children's positive development, reinforce good behavior, and promote a healthy sense of self-worth.

EXERCISE: CALIBRATION Initiated!
Parent with more precision and intention by aligning your parenting strategies to both your color and your child's color.

WEEK 4

Embrace Your Family's True Colors

Get ready to celebrate the colorful cast of characters in your household! You’ll learn how to embrace the unique personalities that make your family one-of-a-kind. When everyone feels accepted for who they are, connection deepens and conflicts shrink. It’s the secret to turning daily chaos into a more joyful, united home.

"Being a YELLOW personality, nothing embarrasses me. When I learned that my husband and my oldest daughter are each RED personalities, I learned it can cause them pain if I tease or say something that embarrasses them, especially in public. I now have a new sensitivity for them that I never really considered before." ~ Sondra P.

What's included in Week 4:

Discover how each personality interacts with each other.

Discover what to do and what not to do when relating to each personality.

EXERCISE: To DO or NOT TO DO!
Tune in more deeply to your child's personality through the lens of the Color Code.

WEEK 5

Raise Your EQs

Discover how to turn big feelings into big breakthroughs! You’ll learn how to help your child (and yourself) handle tough emotions with confidence and care. With simple tools to boost emotional intelligence, communication gets easier and connection grows stronger. Because when everyone learns how to feel it, name it, and talk through it—magic happens.

"I set the tone in my home which is why this work is so important. When I’m regulated and model how to hold and navigate difficult emotions as they arise and fall, I create a learning opportunity for my son and foster an environment of safety and security that ultimately creates a strong foundation for the fun and play he loves as a yellow personality!" ~ Lisa A.

What's included in Week 5:

Dive into one of the most powerful parenting tools you’ll ever use—emotional intelligence, or as we like to call it… raising your EQs!

Become charactered by developing strengths outside of your core color.

EQ Development for PARENTS

Calming YOU: Discover a powerful process to nurture emotional intelligence through emotional regulation for parents.

Calming Your LITTLE ONES: Discover simple ways to nurture emotional intelligence through emotional regulation for toddlers and children.

Calming Your TEENS: Discover strategies to nurture emotional intelligence through emotional regulation for teens.

EXERCISE: The TRIGGER Tracker!
Identify your and your child's triggers and determine strategies to de-escalate and regulate emotions.

WEEK 6

Prepare for the Journey Ahead

Parenting isn’t a sprint—it’s a lifelong adventure with twists, turns, and the occasional snack break. You’ll learn how to stay connected through every stage of your child’s growth by adjusting your expectations and approach along the way. You’ll also discover how to guide your child from “me” to “we,” helping them share their unique gifts with purpose. Because the ultimate goal isn’t just raising a great kid—it’s building a relationship that lasts a lifetime.

"Oh my gosh, in these six weeks I feel like everything has changed. I have gotten so much clarity on the needs of my husband and 2 daughters while increasing my ability to be present in their lives." ~ Staci M.

What's included in Week 6:

Celebrate your growth so far, as you understand that personality is a foundation, but growth is ongoing.

Discover how to maintain emotional closeness by adjusting your parenting communication as your children mature.

Help your children discover and contribute their gifts to the world by moving from self-focused growth to contribution and impact.

Final thoughts and acknowledgment for your commitment to your lifelong self-awareness, emotional intelligence, and all that you do for your family.

JOIN NOW!

Bring the whole family together—one personality insight at a time.
Because every kid deserves to be understood. And every parent deserves a little peace.

$297

OR, 4 monthly pmts of

$87

Six video-based modules are released weekly, and the option to access more modules sooner for you go-getters!

Two Parent Personality Assessments ($80 value)

Personality Assessments for the children in your family between the ages of 5-18 years (up to a $100 value)

40-page Parenting Guide

Downloadable exercises and resource guides

Unlimited email support directly with Lisa

Lifetime access to the program

YES, COUNT ME IN!

family fit guarantee!

We know diving into a new parenting program is a big step, and you're probably wondering if this is going to be right for you and your family. That's why we've got your back with our Family Fit Guarantee.

This means you’ll gain full access to the program for 14 days, and if you’re not thrilled with the value provided, just shoot an email to lisa@lasvegaslifecoach.com within the first 14 days, tell us it's not for you, and you'll get back your initial investment minus $80 to cover our costs. You'll continue to have access to your family's full Color Code results. It’s as easy as that because we want this to feel like a slam dunk for your family.

Mission Accomplished — Parenting Wins in Action!

“Understanding our own personality and our child's helps us parent them more consciously. The key is parenting ourselves and regulating our own emotions, and allowing them to have their own too.”

~ Dr. Julie Quan

"What I have learned about myself and my children can truly help me better understand them and understand why I react the way I do when things get hard. I can take a step back and remind myself that we all have different core motivators and I need to meet them where they are at, not where I want or need them to be. When your children feel heard, seen and validated it can also strengthen your relationship in so many magical ways. The tools Lisa gave us in this program will last a lifetime, and I am just so grateful."

~ Aja

“In order to have a better understanding of ourselves and our children, learn how to approach each other the right way by knowing each other’s personality type.”

~ Jaimie Shum

"Color-coding our family has made an incredible difference in understanding each other. It has helped me understand myself, enrich my marriage, and enhance my ability to parent with more empathy and clarity. For people who are really focused on enhancing the lives of their children, and helping create the best possible humans they can, this is a truly hands-on course to better understand your children and yourself."

~ Sondra Pariser

"Lisa's experience and insight are invaluable and insightful. You'll learn more deeply about yourself and your children which will pave the way for more happy, healthy relationships, in parenting and beyond!"

~ Lisa Abrahime

The Parenting Game-Changer

that could have saved me years of conflict and confusion

I know the struggles of parenthood - having been a parent for 29 years now. After leaving a tumultuous 12-year relationship back in 1998, I became the sole parent and provider of my son Eric when he was only 2 years old. The following years were some of the toughest years of my life.

As I was figuring out the whole parenting thing while financially making ends meet, I struggled with insecurities, stress, and anger that led to impatience with my son, which led to guilt for being impatient. Oh yeah, and I was always in a hurry! I was stuck in a cycle and felt like I was never going to be able to break through my emotional and financial barriers to achieve a better life for me and my son.

That’s when I knew I had to do something, so I found a new path and immersed myself in a profound transformational journey. Even though I had a degree in Psychology, I attended over 80 seminars and retreats studying a multitude of subjects, including emotional healing, relationship dynamics, inner child work, and behavioral psychology.

As a result of my healing and transformation, I became a healthier parent because I became a healthier woman. I became more confident and released my anger and guilt. Patience became one of the greatest gifts of my healing, completely transforming my parenting style.

In Comes The Color Code!

It wasn't until years later that I discovered the Color Code through some dear friends who are also life coaches. Even though I had taken many personality assessments over the years, this one surpassed all the others due to its simplicity, its easy-to-understand yet powerful insights into myself and my son, and parenting strategies that could be implemented immediately.

The one thought that came to me repeatedly was, "This would have been a game-changer for me back when Eric was younger and I was struggling as a parent."

Even though I didn't have it back then, I have it now. Understanding each other's personality types has deepened my relationship with my son. We've both laughed and loved more with the information we each discovered through the Color Code, which continues to strengthen our bond.

That's why I am excited to share this with you: so you can have the parenting game-changer that could have saved me years of conflict and confusion. It is an invaluable tool that can forever improve your relationship with your child and, quite honestly, everyone in your life!